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Forum BEHAVIOR HELP!!!!! My rabbit hates me?!!?!!?!!??!???

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    • Deleted User
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        Hello

        My rabbit, who i got two weeks ago, is about 2 months old. He just turned two months the 14th of January.

        Anyway, the day after I got him, I was petting him and blah blah blah, then when I stopped he licked me a few times. That was the best feeling in the world. However, he doesn’t do it AT ALL anymore. I even put my hand under his chin to “demand” licks, but he doesn’t do it then either. Just pushes his head to the floor.
        My previous rabbit licked me all the time, but I made the worst mistake in bringing him back to the breeder (from where I got him). The previous rabbit was the best. He even became a therapy rabbit in a nursing home. I regret bringing him back.

        Anyway, this one, a mini lop, flops and everything around me, but seems grumpy and does not want to be bothered by me. When I lay on the floor he will go into his cage or across the room and flop down. He will only let me pet him for longer than 2 strokes if I pick him up. I am getting so frustrated with him but I do not want to. I really wanted a licky rabbit so I could see that I’m doing good. But I don’t think I am. Please help!!!


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          Why did you bring your previous bun back?

          1) Not all rabbits are “licky” mine loves me (she tooth purrs and demands pets all the time and loves to be around me), but she NEVER licks me.

          2) Most rabbits hate being picked up, it’s unnatural and it scares them. Plus they don’t like to be confined, I believe it’s instinct to want to be able to feel secure and be able to get away in an event of predator or emergency.

          3) All rabbits are different, just like people!! Some like to be touched and held and kissed, while others don’t like to be touched much.

          I hope this helped a little, Good luck!


        • LBJ10
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            I wouldn’t measure your worth based on whether or not your bunny licks you. Mine don’t lick me. The only time Wooly has licked me is when I was combing his rear and I don’t think he was really conscious of it (more of a reflex, he was licking and my arm happened to be there). Different bunnies show their affection in different ways. Whether they are “licky” or not really has nothing to do with their human or how well they are cared for, so don’t beat yourself up about it.

            It has only been 2 weeks. I suggest giving him some more time to get used to you and his surroundings. His true personality will start to show as he gets older and you will learn how he shows his affection and appreciate him for who he is.


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              Some bunnies have days or weeks of ‘You cannot touch me.’ It does not mean he doesn’t love you, we have days or times we don’t want Granny or a friend to cuddle us, I’m a very loving person, but I get days of ‘I want to be alone.’ it doesn’t mean I don’t like my friends, I love my friends and bunnies are the same, just want to be alone sometimes, if in the future he does not lick you, he will show you love by doing what he is told, I have trained Olly the word ‘No’ he tried to eat some computer wires this morning, I said “Olly no.” he stopped, he tried to get under my bed and I said. “No.” He looked at me and put his head under my bed again, I told him “No” Then he ran to me and let me stroke him, he went back to the bed I said. “Olly no, go home.” He went into his cage like a good boy, I told him he was a good boy and gave him some banana and stroked him, so there are ways bunnies show love, like children, if you have a child and say. “I want you to do your homework.” He will do it because he wants to please you, they know it made you feel good, animals show this by doing what they are told too, (Sometimes) But if they don’t it doesn’t mean they hate you in any way and might have some plan they want to stick to.


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                My rabbit Yohio will lick my hands now, a little, but it took a long time until he did. My other rabbit Bam licks me and everybody else as soon as they come close enough. So rabbits are different. Yohio is the cuddliest one by far. So licking/not licking doesn’t mean they like you/don’t like you.


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                  So you guys are saying there may still be hope of him being a licker?

                  Anyway… I keep getting angry with him and I think I broke the bond between us. Is there a way to repair it? I get angry with him when he jumps tries to jump out of my arms. I catch him midair and hold him firmly to keep him from breaking his back, but then he gets scared and locks up.
                  Please tell me I can still get REALLY close bond with him. I need that and want it really badly.


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                    @bam, was Yohio shy?? my bunny was not shy. He was handled from birth and loves people. Just not me I think


                  • LBJ10
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                      You can build trust by spending him with him on his level and not trying to pick him up. Most bunnies do not enjoy being held.


                    • Deleted User
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                        But will it definitely be worth it to try to get him to love me but find out that he doesn’t later on? I will have wasted months and money on a bunny that doesn’t even like me. Please tell me that there is going to be good things that will make this worth it

                        @LBJ10


                      • teddy+toby
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                          U can also build trust by letting him come up to u


                        • LBJ10
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                            I wouldn’t look at it like that. Bunnies are very different in the way the show their affection (i.e. different from each other and very different from dogs or cats). You have to understand that some bunnies are cuddly and some are no-touchy and some are somewhere in between. This doesn’t mean that more “distant” bunnies don’t love their human. If a bunny happens to be one of these individuals, they will show their affection in more subtle ways. They might flop on the floor next to their human, for example. That is their way of showing affection. Part of the challenge of owning and loving a bunny is accepting them for who they are and appreciate them for all of the little things they do in their own special way. You can’t force a bunny to love or trust you. And licking doesn’t necessarily equal a strong bond either.

                            I’m sure that you can build a nice bond with your bunny. But you have to be willing to accept them for who they are. Sit on the floor with them, quietly. Let them come to you. Don’t try to pick them up, ignore them instead. The more you ignore them, the more curious they become. After awhile, offer them good things when they come to you. Treats are great for building trust. Go slowly with petting and only pet them where they allow you to pet them. Some bunnies only liked to be pet on the head, for example.

                            The key here is patience. And if you go in without any expectations, something very beautiful can result.


                          • Q8bunny
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                              You can’t expect or demand that your rabbit love you. Just because you paid money for him doesn’t mean you bought his love. Love cannot be bought – in pets or in people. As with people, it takes time to establish a relationship and earn trust and eventually friendship and love. Since you’ve only had your bun for two weeks, I’d say that it’s unreasonable to expect that to have happened already. Especially if your bun can sense your anger (which they are very good at) or if you insist on picking him up/holding him (something bunnies do NOT like since it’s completely unnatural for them to be in that position in a non-prey/predator situation).

                              So my suggestion to you would be, stop looking at your bunny as though he owes you licks (or anything else for that matter). He doesn’t owe you anything. You brought him into your life, so it’s YOUR responsibility to make sure he gets the best life you can give him. If you manage to get your frustration under control, and are relaxed, friendly, loving TOWARD him, and are patient enough to build the kind of bond that doesn’t happen overnight, then you may very well end up with a trusting, loving, affectionate bunny, who may still not be “licky” but who you will know, without a doubt, cares about you.


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                                My opinion is, you gotta love a bunny for who they are, not for what you expect of them.

                                I used to think my rabbit hated me too – he loves to lick but dislikes being picked up. It took me a solid year of patience to earn his trust, but I have never regretted the effort. He bit me twice in the first year (not malicious, but warning me), and has scratched my arms up, but I learnt from it and we are really close now, to the point where he will sit by my feet like a dog and occasionally come when called. Had I expected him to be a lap rabbit, I would have missed out on the affectionate side of his personality. My other rabbit will let me handle her and will sit still in my lap for ages, but she doesn’t lick me, and I don’t think she ever will. I groom her regularly, and that is how we bond. She trusts me, but not on my terms – on her terms. She shows me she likes me by climbing on my back when I am lying down and nudging my hands for petting. Even the fact that she approaches me means that she trusts me, and that is just part of the deal with rabbits. I have chosen to focus on the positive qualities of both my babies.

                                I would encourage you to not let your expectations get in the way. Just start over, and be patient, consistent and persistent. You and your rabbit just need to come to an understanding, and that requires patience and becoming teachable.

                                I think you can definitely build a good bond with your rabbit, even now.


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                                  Is there a way to get him to accept me as an “honorary rabbit?” I just want to cuddle with him. The breeder said he was the sweetest thing ever and licks and everything, but he hasn’t to me!!

                                  Is there a way to get him to do this? He is very content with me. Grooms himself in front of me and flops and stuff around me, hops on my lap to get a treat, stands up when I come to his cage, etc.

                                  I really need a really close bond with him.


                                • Bam
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                                    The fact that he grooms himself + flops in front of you are really promising signs. He’s starting to trust you. It takes a bit of time with a bunny, since they are prey animals and their instincts tell them to beware of predators all the time. They’re very different from dogs in that way, but that’s because a dog is a predator and doesn’t have to fear getting eaten all the time.
                                    You need to arm yourself with patience. Make sure he associates you with the good things in life, food and treats and head rubs. Bunnies often prefer being pet on the head and ears rather than on the back or butt.


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                                      Thanks @bam. I guess I have to keep trying.

                                      Btw, Bam is super cute!!! I’m guessing he’s a “helicop lop?”
                                      And I love the color of Yohio!!


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                                        When he pushes his head down, that coudl also be him asking you to pet his head.
                                        I have 4 bunnies. None of them have ever licked me. 2 of them really love me. 1 likes me, and 1 is cautious of me. I have had my bunnies for over 3 years.
                                        I have cared for 35 other bunnies before keeping these 4 as pets. I agree with what everyone else is saying.
                                        Don’t pick up your bunny just yet. Him jumping, and you catching him, probably frightened him. Take it easy, and let him regain his trust. Rabbits don’t like to be picked up like cats and dogs. Breeders might also tell you what you want to hear, in order to make a sale.
                                        I can pick up 2 of my bunnies. The other 2 get very scared, so I never try to pick them up myself. I let them into a cat carrier, and pick them up in the carier. It is less scary for them that way.
                                        If your bunny is flopping next to you, that is a good sign. I believe there is hope for a good bond, but no guarantee that he will be a licker. Lickers are rare. Sit with him, don’t pay him too much attention at first, let him get comfortable and flop, offer some food, and petting. Head is the favorite spot. Bunnies don’t immediately want hours of petting either. They start with accepting a few strokes, and work it up from there.
                                        Be patient, and go at the rabbit’s pace, not your pace.


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                                          Oh. And I also don’t want him to be dominant. My vet says that subordinate rabbits are happier than dominant ones because they do not have the “responsibility to take care of everything.”

                                          How do I take him out of the dominant position and keep him out. I read that rabbits that do not lick but accept grooming are dominant do not return the favor. I want him out of the position of top rabbit if he thinks he is because i am the boss and i am and always have been dominant. I don’t want to fight with him over dominance when he gets older. I have to establish it now so that he does not think he is dominant when he gets older.

                                          Please, any advice would be greatly appreciated. PLEASE NOTE: I want him out of the dominant position, nothing anyone will say can get that out of my head. He is not going to rule this house. If that’s all your going to write, don’t write anything. Not trying to be rude but I have seen this before with other people, telling people to not do what they feel is right.


                                        • LBJ10
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                                            Your vet sounds like they are giving advice about a dog, not a bunny.

                                            It isn’t so much about doing what is “right” or “wrong”. It is more about what is actually possible and what is not.

                                            A bunny with a “dominant” personality, will always have one. You can’t simply get rid of it. Trying to force your dominance in the relationship is only going to cause frustration, both for you and your bun. I honestly don’t believe it will help you in earning his trust or in developing a close bond. I know that isn’t what you want to hear, but felt I should put that out there. I want you to get the most out of your bunny.


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                                              Sorry to be blunt BunniesAreMyFavorite, but your vet doesn’t speak for every bunny. I would like to go on record as being a bunny owner with a very dominant rabbit who licks my face like crazy. And my clothes. And my hands. He doesn’t have a licking problem, it’s just his personality. I’ve also read on BB somewhere that other people have had dominant bunnies who groom their “subordinates” (bunnies) more than the subordinates groom them in return.
                                              Canines are consistently reciprocal (my dogs are always happy), but I have to say that bunnies are simply not like that. They’re a bit like a Kinder Surprise: you get what you get.


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                                                Yes, Love2Bunny, that is true as well. There are lot’s of dominant bunnies who groom. Leopold grooms Wooly all the time. Leopold is the boss in their relationship, but that doesn’t stop him from grooming Wooly.


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                                                  BunniesAreMyFavorite: Can you hear yourself? I want this… I don’t want that… I’m the dominant…

                                                  Good grief! You bought a living creature, not a VCR you can program! Everyone has been advising you to be patient and give your rabbit time and love and you’re still dishing out unrealistic demands. Do you seriously think someone will tell you that your bunny will be your submissive and give you licks on demand at such and such date and time?

                                                  Seriously, guys, I’m usually a really laid-back person so I’m sorry to be blunt here, but is anyone else concerned about the tone of these posts? Because I for one find them disturbing to the point where I worry about this poor little bun who may or may not meet some impossible-sounding expectations at his own peril.


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                                                    BunniesAreMyFavorite:
                                                    Dominance is not a problem in bunnies. It’s a problem with dogs sometimes but it’s debated in dogs as well, many modern scholars in ethology renounces the concept since the theory about dominance in dogs were based studies on wolves in capitivity back in the day. I’m guessing you have seen TV shows with Caesar Milan or Victoria Stillwell. They would be the first to say that rabbits are not dogs. They always stress the fact that dogs are not humans. So why would a bunny be a dog?

                                                    It is very true as Q8bunny says, you bunny is an animal, a living creature, he can’t be programmed to do what you want and he’s not supposed to either. That is the beauty of animals versus dead things like computers. You have to interact on another being’s terms, you have to be creative and patient. A good way to start is to try and imagine yourself in your bunny’s place. He can never imagine himself in your place. You are bigger and stronger and smarter than him so now you have to be really kind and considerate too.


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                                                      Your vet is absolutely talking about DOGS for goodness sake ! A dog put into a leaders position can stress at having this big responsibility.
                                                      Dogs are carnivorous pack animals and need a “leader” to survive.

                                                      Here we are talking about rabbits! And you have one. As do we all on this forum.

                                                      The number of licks do not equal “points” of by how much your rabbit loves you.
                                                      It doesn’t mean if your bunny does not lick you he does not ‘love’ you.

                                                      Some people love their dog ‘kissing’ them on the mouth with big tongue licks, with the same tongue that has just wiped the dogs pooey bum !!!
                                                      Me personally I trained my dog not to kiss! And I KNOW she adored me.

                                                      Don’t “score” your rabbit on licks. The very fact HE jumps ON to YOU for treats and lets you TOUCH him is a HUGE thing for rabbits.
                                                      And 100% prroof that he trusts you.

                                                      Just look at GinaJenny posts on her rabbit who after 8 MONTHS has let her finally touch her!!!! And GJ is over the moon.

                                                      You sound very determined in your words of making your bunny into a puppy. He is not.
                                                      He is just a simple bunny asking you for care, and food and companionship.

                                                      Stop thinking dominance between human and rabbit. That will only occur in rabbit vs rabbit.
                                                      Start thinking gentle, so gentle care and loving. The rest will follow.

                                                      If you expect way too much of animals and people, you will always be disappointed and frustrated and the other will always feel a failure (and frustrated).


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                                                        As Moxie asks – why did you take your previous perfect bunny back to the breeder ?


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                                                          I have had very few rabbits that are okay with being submissive. Your vet is probably talking mostly at a dog owner stand point, as a dominant bunny in my experience is happier then a Sumbissive rabbit that is naturally dominant. I have one rabbit, tonto, and he is about as dominant as rabbits get. He marks everything, and gets angry if you put your hand under his chin. He also holds grudges until you have him banana, xD. However, he is a real sweet heart. He will cuddle with you and then run around, binky, and jump on your lap. Then, there’s my other buck, chubasco. He really doesn’t care about dominance, Instead, he wants to feel free. We keep his door open during the day, and he never jumps out. It depends on the bunny, and in the end, does it matter if they think they are the boss? Really, they are 5 pound animals (at least some of them..) and if they think they own the world, so what? It’s not like they can really control you.


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                                                            Well my vet said that they will get aggressive and mean and stuff if they are allowed to be dominant to their human. I guess I should find a new vet. He obviously has no knowledge of bunny behavior.

                                                            @Q8bunny: that is seriously unnecessary and rude. How dare you say that I am not taking good care of my bunny. It obviously was misinformation from my vet. Have you even read my posts that say, my VET SAID?? Seriously. The ignorance of some people is unbelievable. You are so rude.

                                                            @BlacknWhitr: that is a great point. I never looked at it like that.

                                                            @ViennaBlueInFrance: thanks. And I took my previous bunny back to the breeder because he loved interaction with many people at a time, which I could not provide living with myself, and with my new job and stuff I could not bring him to the nursing home for therapy helping. So the breeder said that if I bring him back she will be happy to bring him to and from the nursing home. But that was supposed to be temporary, (from September to November) the time of the nursing homes animal program. she sold my bunny to some person who works at the nursing home. And she won’t tell me who so I can’t get him back. I am losing my mind here.


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                                                              And please no hate on bringing him back. I already know that was dumb and I shouldn’t have taken him back for the few months. But you can hate on the breeder. I can’t believe them.


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                                                                @Love2Bunny,

                                                                You are the best. I never knew that. I am definetely finding a new vet. He told me that dominant will never reciprocate the grooming, only demand and accept it.

                                                                @ViennaBlueInFrance,

                                                                So dominance doesn’t occur from rabbit to human? I swear, this vet keeps looking dumber and dumber. Lol


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                                                                  I have three bunny’s, the two girls were rescued from living wild. By their age, I think they were Easter babies, who turned into unwanted summer adolescents.

                                                                  Pippi, the boy lop doesn’t do dominance. He is his own bunny, and goes by live and let live. He is a contented, but not overly affectionate bunny.

                                                                  Both girls are super dominant, which I think comes in part from their time surviving living without any shelter or food.

                                                                  Jenny nearly died several times after we got her, which I put down to her having eaten plants that are toxic to a bunny because she was starving. I had to stay up every night for the first week, keeping her wrapped in heated blankets, and making sure she got nutritious food through the night as well as the day. This meant she got used to being handled and touched, but in spite of enjoying lots of affection, she clearly believes she is the alpha bunny in the house, and frequently tries to put me in my place. She is bonded to Pippi, and keeps him in his place too, or at least she thinks she does.

                                                                  We caught Gina several weeks before we managed to catch Jenny, but she was way more aggressive than Jenny for many months, which I think is a combination of what she went through before we caught her, and personality. Its been almost 8 months since we caught Gina, and its only the past week that she has started to welcome even the briefest of head rubs. Its only now that I can go near her without the front paws turning into swiping claws. I would like her to bonded to the other two, but until this past week, that looked like it might never happen, as her attitude to Jenny was to attack first and ask questions later.

                                                                  When Gina got her first proper head rubbing session the other day, Jenny made it clear that head rubs belong to her and her alone, and insisted I sat and rubbed her head for 15 minutes non-stop, to put things back in balance. Jenny chases Pippin away if I give him head rubs when she is looking.

                                                                  Every rabbit is different, a happy rabbit is a rabbit who feels safe, not a rabbit who feels either submissive or dominant.

                                                                  My advice would be try to go for mutual trust and respect!


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                                                                    Guys, I am locking this thread for now until BB advises. I don’t want things to get more heated.

                                                                    I understand everyone has their own opinions but please remember to be polite.


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                                                                      Could you unlock it but keep it as a supportive advice only. Maybe monitor every ones responses and delete ones that get out of line. I just want advice for making things better between me and my love. (Bunny)
                                                                      Anyway, thanks for taking control of things so quickly and making order


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                                                                        I have unlocked the thread. I do understand when misunderstandings happen and/or frustrations flair, but I ditto what our Forum Leader, LPT, advised == be polite.

                                                                        BunniesAreMyFavorite: There are bunnies that are considered “dominant” but it’s not the same way as dogs (leader of the pack). I can’t speak much on dogs as I do not have any, but with rabbits, there are behaviors that can be named dominant or passive. (mounting, grooming etc). But the behaviors you are seeking don’t have much to with a passive or dominant behavior because either rabbit — Passive or dominant, can hate being picked up, demand to be groomed, be aloof, or gregarious, not lick, or lick their human.

                                                                        The best behaviors come out when your bunny can trust you. It can take time and patience with some. Also, when you buy or adopt an animal, I feel it’s about a teaming up. Not just an animal companion for us, but the bunny gets a human. It’s about his needs too. And he may not be the licky kind (most aren’t),I have never had a licky rabbit. Most of my bunnies over the years hated being picked up. I had to do it to clip their nails and such, but in general I had to compromise, and I found a great middle ground. Would I love to hold and snuggle my bunny all the time?  Absolutely! But that just makes them steer clear of me because they hate it. That’s part of their prey nature. So instead, I get a bunch of cozy pillows and hangout on the floor or on the couch and my bunny will approach me there. But it takes time. 

                                                                         Also, some behaviors, that actually represent affection and a need to bond, can be misinterpreted as just the opposite. Like a rabbit sniffing the ground near you, is not ignoring you – he wants to get near you but doesn’t trust just yet. If you do something else, read a book, etc and ignore him near by, he will most likely begin to come closer. A rabbit who puts his head down near you is not depressed or sad, he is asking for you to pet him. My bunny now demands to be pet by shoving her nose in my arm or hand. This would be considered a “dominant” move by some. I am more than happy to oblige and pet her — builds our bond.

                                                                        There are great ways to bond with your rabbit that don’t involve exactly what you expected. To help you understand bunny body language this is a great link: http://language.rabbitspeak.com/

                                                                        So be patient and change your expectations of what love from a bunny is supposed to look like, and you will find a new way to bond.

                                                                        NOTE:  Are you planning on neutering him? 

                                                                        Helloworld!!


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                                                                          BunniesAreMyFavorite – I agree with everything BB and the others are saying. A bunny that thinks he/she is a “dominant” one in the relationship is not a bad thing and giving pets when asked can only strengthen a bond. Building trust is the most important thing in a relationship with any bunny.

                                                                          I hope you know that most of the people in this thread are genuinely trying to help you. We are a forum that takes pride in being a nice and welcoming community. I hope you know that. You were given some not-so-accurate information from your vet. No one is blaming you for that. I hope you can find a vet that is more knowledgeable. If you plan to have your bunny neutered, I don’t think I would trust your current vet with the task.


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                                                                            Yes I am definitely getting him neutered when he reaches sexual maturity. And I am definitely not trusting this vet with the task. I am going to a different one. Already found a new one, a litter further than I’d like, but it’s worth the drive for a healthy bun.

                                                                            I also went to Barnes and Nobles today and got a book called Rabbits For Dummies. I hope that will help. The reviews were phenomenal


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                                                                              Unfortunately, we sometimes need to travel farther to find a good vet. I’m lucky I have a good vet only 10 minutes away by car, but I know many members here who have to drive an hour or more.

                                                                              The book you purchased doesn’t have “everything”, but it’s a good starting point. Don’t be afraid to ask us questions too. We bunny parents have to stick together!


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                                                                                Bunny donimance or submissiveness – is a behavior that they share with other bunnies, not with humans. Of all the bunnies I have raised and currently have, I cant’ tell that any of them have acted dominantly – or submissivly to me. Some of them run up to me for petting, others don’t. In each pair, there is a dominant and submissive bunny. Guin is my most dominant bunny at the moment. Or at least the most bossy. She is a total sweety with me. But she doesn’t get submissive or dominant – like she does with ither bunnies that she knows. So I don’t think you need to worry about that. Here’s what I think you should focus on.
                                                                                1 Don’t compare bunnies with puppies. They have very different behavioral needs and responses.
                                                                                2 Find a vet who knows more about bunnies. (Looks like you have just done that).
                                                                                3 Develop a trusting relationship with your bunny. You need this – before yoru bunny will be able to show you affection.
                                                                                4 Learn about the different ways bunnies show affection. Very few bunnies lick. Many bunnies ask you to pet them, once they are comfortable wih you.
                                                                                5 Instead of focusing on what type of bunny you want hin to turn out to be, rather spend time getting to know your bunny, and find out what type of bunny he is. You will discover the cutest quirks and things he does – that just make you melt 🙂


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                                                                                  Ok so… Something weird just happened. I was walking around my room and then he started following and then laying his head on my feet. Then I knelt down and he jumped up into my arm and started honking. Should I be worried? Is that a sign that he needs medical attention???


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                                                                                    Haha, no he doesn’t need medical attention. Honking is him saying that he’s interested in you, because he’s starting to reach sexual maturity. Often they will also circle your feet as well.


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                                                                                      He likes you 🙂


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                                                                                        He loves you and wants to make babies with you. I agree with Azerane, he is probably feeling the hormones.


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                                                                                          Pippin honks for food! Its coming up two years since his trip to the vet, so I’m pretty certain its a demand for treats

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