bump, bump! please help

hmmm... i'm new at this so take my advice with a grain of salt! 

i wonder if you could try the banana hat method to encourage grooming?  in other words, schmear a wee bit of banana on their foreheads or even sprinkling a bit of water to encourage grooming.  it almost seems like they just need some encouragement and security in grooming wach other.  just a thought.

sounds like you're leaps & bounds ahead of me... good luck with your progress & stick to it!

^thanks babybunsmum! Unfortunately, I've tried the banana method and the stuffed animal method. I think I just have a KING rabbit!

doh!  lol.  ah well... worth a shot at mentioning it.   i think i have one of those too 'cept she's a she.  she's scuffed baby bun's eye twice now and i can't risk her doing it again... poor baby bun.  i'm trying the stunt double method with moderate success.  how hard are the nips?  have you had any wounds to tend to?  do you hold the nipping bunny's head down to show dominance after they nip?  i think sometimes nipping is okay if it's not doing harm but i get that you want to see progress.

markusdark's maryann was quite a feisty bun and nipped a lot at her bunfriend dono when he was trying to bond them.  i *think* that the bonders he took the buns to thought that she didn't know acceptable bun behaviour and needed to be taught it.  dono was too afraid of her to teach her.  (correct me if i'm wrong markusdark!) 

i also watched a youtube vid about bonding where they said a similar thing.  in both cases the bonders set up the bonding area so that there was a separate spot for one bun to goto when they've had enough of the other bun's behavior.  in the video the narrator said that the older more experienced bun would go into the crate and face out & not let the younger bun in or near if the younger bun did something unacceptable (like too much humping or nipping).  this eventually taught the bun what not to do the offending behaviour.

does your bonding area have a 'nook' in it where one bun can retreat to?  how big is your bonding area? 

i may not have any good solutions but answers to some of these q's could help some one else give advice.  i'll be following along your thread to read suggestions for sure!

Make sure that the bonding sessions take place in a small area (3x6 foot is plenty), and that the area is in as neutral territory as possible.
Start the bonding session first with a 10 minute car ride.
You need to remove fear or apprehension from yourself as buns can sense this and will get wired up accordingly.
You need to assert to your buns that you are the one in charge. Maryann was in charge in my household so my scoldings meant nothing to her. When I turned her over to someone else though, they were in charge since Maryann was in unfamiliar territory.

It will take time. Some buns take forever with it. But if they snuggle together in the car, it means they are cabable of being friends.

I think they need to spend more time in the pen together.

Is it actual fighting that they are doing or is it running and chasing.

It can take awhile for rabbits to start trusting each other.

^actual fighting- BUT not right away. he puts his head down for grooming, she complies. It's when she stops that he becomes irate and they fight and pull fur out! No blood or anything however. I have been bonding in tubs and on tables- maybe a room will be better so they have the option of ignoring each other.

i've been taking videos of what i've been doing in the Max and Meadow thread. i'm going thru the same thing. just keep with it. i've been doing at least one hour per day, and i feel i've had progress already, in just a week's time.

^going to check out your thread!