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07/16/2010 09:34 AM
Their behavior is because they have had so many fights. You must turn up the stress and do use the garden, not the apartment. They have to be taken out of the environment where they have been fighting.
Do you have anything on wheels, a wheel barrow, an old stroller, a trolly, anything? You could wheel them around in a box on one of those for a bunch of sessions. You need motion stress in my opinion to break the fighting cycle.
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07/16/2010 11:59 AM

So here are quite  a few videos to enjoy - hey, if you are into it, you can even watch a bunny fight! 

So, first session in the garden. The first 20 minutes were more or less small tiffs. I don't remember the number of times, I was bit. And yeah, we had another one of those moments with Karl sqeeuking and screaming, because Freddie was biting him  I went away to get dinner and had Karl caged within the pen. Next session I was back with the camera, and here is how it went. This is the longest session, I've ever done. I think, it's been 1½ hour or so.

1. Freddie digs and watches Karl

Look how tense Karl is. He was like that throughout the whole session...

2. Close to each other, but no fight!

Yeeeah, no fighting. Karl just moves away quickly. This is the one of the best moments during the session, so please enjoy!

3. Karl snaps at Molly

So, Karl is stressed and Molly is right there, so he takes it out on her. He is so stressed, he tries to get behind the cage.

4. Karl is getting a bit aggressive in his behaviour

Karl runs after Freddie who is inside the box; Freddie comes right after him and it does not look friendly! I think it is Karl, who bites me as I put my hand between them. And Freddie just digs and digs right in Karl's spot. It most be a dominance thing as JerseyGirl mentioned earlier in this thread. The way that Karl comes back right at the end of the video supports this.

5. Best session moment

Karl is grooming Molly when Freddie decides to join the party. He shows no aggression or interest in Karl. When Karl moves quickly towards him and withpulls, I'm not interfering although it looks like it. I think it is more of a "fake attack" on his part. And in the end, everybody seems friendly.

Look at poor Molly just trying to get a groom

 

6. Bunny fight!

And well, pardon my language if anyone understands what I'm shouting. Karl bit me trying to get to Freddie.

I finished it off with them both in the container and petting them for a minute or so.

 I have lots of other videos and also another one of me getting caught in a tiff. But this is just so you can see what the session was like.

In general, I was quite positive about it. At least, it wasn't one big fight as I had feared it might have been. There was fighting, but now at least they had the room to escape each other. I will do another session tomorrow morning! And yes, Petzy, I have a bicycle trailer. We actually talked about using that one today, but I didn't want to because I cannot control them then. Once they fight, they don't seem to stop and I won't have easy access to them, but I'm willing to give it a go, if you think it might be a good idea?

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07/16/2010 03:49 PM
I can't watch the videos right now but will later.
about the trailer -- yes, do it! This is how I would use it: put the two boy bunnies in on a towel or on a bed of hay, then have your boyfriend just push it back and forth so he won't actually be walking just pushing the thing back a foot, and forward again. This will allow you to stand over top of them and I suggest you do this in your garden wearing gloves. Do you have a garden hose? I would add a sensation of 'rain' to this motion stress, very lightly of course so not to soak them!! if this works to make them sit still, repeat these sessions over and over until the associate each other with rocky ride and rain rather than with fight. It can work!! Good luck!!!
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07/16/2010 07:11 PM
Ok. I see it, Karla, they are making it hard for you. Bad rabbits! I feel for you... I was there... so frustrating!!!!!!
Seriously, you must stress the grudge out of them. I still believe the motion with water mist will surprise them enough. They WANT to fight, like two school yard boys who don't even remember why they didn't like each other in the first place....
I also recommend hands-on sessions of these in a box on your lap WEARING GLOVES. Just petting them down hard and pushing their bitey little heads down.
They will bond... it will be extra special once they are! And you will have good tips for your website after dealing with them
Don't give up!!!!!
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07/16/2010 09:56 PM
Regarding the digging....I'm not so sure from that video. It just looked like Freddie found something interesting to eat. He appeared happy to be investigating things out doors. Karl appears uncomfortable in general. Is Karl a bit out of sorts at the moment because of shedding?
How is he outside of bonding sessions. I know Molly was a good guide for when something was up with Jack. Does she do the same toward Karl?

He's your 1st rabbit of your 3 now. Do you feel pretty protective of him?
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07/17/2010 12:19 AM
I will try the hands-on-session in a minute and then later today I could get my boyfriend to help with the trailer. However, it is a rare exception that he can help me out, so I cannot rely on having someone to help me. It is stressing me out. I keep thinking of bonding sessions, and it makes me so sad all this.

JG: Yes, Karl is shedding A LOT. It's hard to tell if he is acting differently because of it, because he has changed so much during these bonding sessions. He doesn't like quick movements now and makes false attacks if I or Molly do something near him, and he runs and hides as soon as he sees me when he knows it is time for sessions. So, I actually don't see much of him. Molly is not acting differently towards him. Heck, she doesn't even seem to be concerned when he attacks her.

But Karl is very easily stressed. New places and new things clearly stresses him and always have. That is why I may be a bit overprotective, because I know how much this affects him and I can see it on his behaviour. Freddie, however, seems much more fine outside the sessions, but while they are on, I have never seen a rabbit shake so much when they are close to each other.

I hate I have to put them through this.

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07/17/2010 12:22 AM
By the way, are you suggesting I don't do any more sessions in the outdoor pen now?
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07/17/2010 12:56 AM
I was just thinking. The relationship seem to be getting worse and worse and more and more tense. Remember when there was actually grooming?

I just did the bonding session on my lap and it went fine. Karl even grinded his teeth at one point (out of content), and Freddie made a big sigh and seemed to relax. And none of them were shaking like they sometimes do. After 10 minutes, Freddie was trying to force his head over to Karl, and it did not seem friendly. Also, he tried to make a weak attempt to bite me, so I finished it off while they were still relaxed and nothing was going on as such.

Wouldn't it be better to do 10 of these sessions a day of 10 minutes for the next week? Just to make them associate each other with pets and quiet time on my lap and break the cycle of biting? Instead of doing the stress sessions that will just make them associate each other with something bad?
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07/17/2010 02:15 AM
Posted By Karla on 07/17/2010 12:22 AM
By the way, are you suggesting I don't do any more sessions in the outdoor pen now?

Not at all!  I think the pen is a good space for you to work in.   No, I was just commenting on how the bun buns seemed.  Karl is just being a stress head then. That's ok. It's temporary and will get better.  I'm kinda more worried about your stress levels!  It's good to read you've just had a fairly calm session. When things go awry I think it's good to go back to a thing that is working (like the pets side by side).

With the outdoor pen, you could hang sheets or something on some sides to make it feel more confined.   See if it makes any difference.

 

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07/17/2010 09:10 AM
Just a quick update. I have done three sessions on my lap today and it went great. I have done them before, when it didn't turn out so good, but these times it worked really well. Really well, means no fighting and no moving around. Just two bunnies lying still on my lap with some occassional grinding. I'm not sure of the grinding coming from Freddie wasn't due to stress, but at least Karl grinded his teeth out of pleasure, and Freddie was relaxed.

I will do more of these, because they are less stressful for me and the bunnies. Perhaps 10 times a day was a bit too ambitious, but if I can do 4-5 then that would be great. And then by the end of the week, we can see if I should put them in the trailer or in the pen.

yeah, fingers crossed!

...Somehow I have a feeling that this is not the solution, because those two boys are not going to make it easy on me. But I do hope!
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07/17/2010 10:41 AM
I had two buns here for bonding, valmore and Clifford, and the lap sessions were the only place they could be together too, so I just did that. I agree with you Karla, just do a million of those close petting sessions with the two rabbits sitting on your lap! It will calm everybody including yourself. It is sometimes just enough success to have found one place where they don't fight.
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07/17/2010 12:28 PM
Another technique you might like to try is the 'dry rainstorm method' that I used with someone else. You would use one of your cages without the bottom on it and set it in your garden or on the floor. Place a large metal tray such as an oven pan on top of the cage and then hit the pan with a metal object to simulate rain noise.
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07/20/2010 11:43 AM
So I think I have done about #40 sessions now in total. The past 11 ones have been on my lap - purely petting for about 10-15 minutes. It is going okay. Initially, there was some vague attempts to bite whenever one of them got tired of being on my lap, but they have stopped that now. That is also why I keep the sessions so short. I rather have short, successful sessions than long ones that may end badly.

Anyways, it seems to be going well. They do grind their teeth out of contentment now and then. No grooming yet, but I hope it will eventually happen. Once I see grooming for a few times, I think we are ready to try other things. Perhaps a session in the garden.
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07/21/2010 03:16 AM

Just to show you something nice in between all these frustrating updates:

 

 

 

Now, Freddie and Molly was an easy bond. As easy as all the previous ones have been. They took a liking to each other instantly.

It actually came as a big surprise to me that Molly welcomed him straight away since she was not as welcoming towards Jack when he moved in for the first 3 days.  But perhaps that was due to his illness

 

 

 

 

 

 

Although I love the fact that Molly and Freddie both groom each other, it kind of breaks my heart knowing that Molly never grooms Karl...

But I guess it is a bunny thing, and that Karl doesn't feel as bad about it as I do  

Man, I hope Karl and  Freddie bond very soon, so all three can lie together.

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07/21/2010 09:46 AM
cute pictures! I see you are in the black-and-white bunnies club also!
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07/22/2010 02:55 AM
Another fight. Because I have to do so many sessions in one day, I want them to be easy to catch, so I keep them all in the bunny room and have divided it into two. This has worked well for the past couple of days, but now Karl just climbed over the cage and went into Freddie's area.

Big step back But at least, I find one positive note on this: they were easy to seperate which has not been the case previous times. I put them straight up on my lap and petted them, and they did not try to bite each other, but kept still close to each other, and none of them were as stressed out as they have been before. So, although it was a fight, it seems it was not as aggressive as previously.

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07/27/2010 04:57 AM

I have lost track of how many sessions, I've done. I've think I have reached session #56 just now. We don't seem to go anywhere, so I just now tried putting them in the container to see if they would still be friendly towards each other. Nope. Freddie bit me the second I put Karl down in the container to him. So I moved them back to my lap, where Karl tried biting Freddie. But they calmed down and stayed on my lap for 15 minutes or more.

Freddie seems very relaxed on my lap and actually cuddles up close to Karl. Karl is a bit more tense, and his eyes look like they are popping out, but at least he is not showing any aggressive signs. Both try to avoid me and hide when I enter the room, because they know I am there to lift them. We are making NO progress at all. None whatsoever.

By the way, Karl has a nasty bite on his back...presumedly from their fight last week, so it wasn't as innocent as I wrote.

 

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07/28/2010 03:14 PM
Karla, it does remind me very much of Clifford and Valmore from my male quartet bonding. The only way to bond them is for you to turn yourself into an extreme rabbit vigilante: no fighting, no dirty looks, no thoughts of fighting you will tolerate ... this sort of thing. Do keep up the sessions where they sit in your lap, and then also make a pen in your garden and use a garden hose this way: as soon as one approaches the other you splash water down on the ground between them and say "tshshshshsh"; quickly they learn what this means. They will spend many sessions just pouting in opposite corners but the idea is to wear them down. I do think you have it in you to wear them down.
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07/28/2010 07:09 PM
Go hardcore.

lol "Extreme Rabbit Vigilante" make it sound like you should be in some sort of super hero costume. Oh well, might as well make it fun.
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07/29/2010 04:51 AM
LOL, you guys have great ideas.

These two guys are wearing me down. Latest news is that I have just gone crazy on the internet and bought tons of Bach's Rescue Remedy (I used that a few times, but ran out) and Zylkene for rabbits. I am now moving forward to next phase: dope the bunnies!

I really need Karl to relax.

Although I prefer the quiet, but not-going-anywhere sessions, I will do as you suggest, Petzy - put on my bunny suit and hose them down outside. I can do that this weekend, I think. Poor bunnies!

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08/01/2010 09:54 AM

I’m putting the bonding sessions on pause. I don’t like the way this is affecting Karl and making a previously skittish, but curious and funny bunny into an aggressive, nervous bunny who will growl and lunge at me, if I get too close to him on our bonding days. He is so easily stressed that this is taking its toll on him, so I need the zylkene to work on him for a while, before we start up again.

Also, yesterday there was a fight unfortunately. I put Freddie in a different cage than usual, which I thought was 100% bunny proof as not even Molly has been able to escape it. I went on an hour walk with the dog and when I was home, I just wanted to get something from the bunny room. I noticed the horrible smell (that always comes when they fight) and saw fur on the floor. Then I saw that the cage was empty! I finally found Freddie hiding behind the bin. Both seem to have a tiny bite mark on their back, but that’s it. Phew! At least, they have given up the fight, which I find positive. I really hope we can move to a house soon, so I have more room and can separate them! I miss having bunnies roam my apartment freely and when I didn’t have to feel bad constantly about one of them being caged. 

Another thing is that I was thinking that using stress techniques or having them on my lap maybe not be the way to go. If they were dogs, the Stillwell approach would be to let them slowly meet while making them associate each other with treats. If only I could find a way of doing this. Like this video here:

http://animal.discovery.com/videos/...ydney.html
 

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08/22/2010 04:37 AM
Ok, so I am ready to start again! Freddie has been living in our living room for a good while, while Karl lives in the bunny room. Yesterday unfortunately, as I was cleaning litter boxes and hadn't closed the door properly, they ended up fighting again. I really need them to bond soon.

So tomorrow morning I am starting off with Serene-Um to both of the guys and then I think I will do a session in the shower on the dog's blanket. The bathroom is a neutral area, and I assume that the scent of the dog will make them both nervous. Fingers crossed for us! I really need this to work out. Unfortunately, my mum did not want me and the bunnies to visit, so I cannot use their place as a neutral area.
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08/22/2010 07:12 AM
Not that I am even planning it at this point, but do you think bonding would be easier if I had another female? Molly is sharing her time between Karl and Freddie and I have noticed that Karl has begun chasing her lately, when she is back from having spend time with Freddie...so perhaps they are fighting over the only available female, and all problems would be solved with a 2nd female?
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08/22/2010 09:59 AM
You can't add a fourth rabbit without first bonding this trio. It is the fighting that ruins the bonding. Any new rabbit who Karl has not fought with would be an easier match at this point, so if there was another female, they may bond with her relatively easily but the problems between Karl and Freddie would persist. You have to break the cycle of fighting; having a bonding session now after they fought again may not be easy.

I wish they could go without any fighting for a very long time before you resume. And then I would take the two boys far away from Molly and your place, on a trip, ideally, and have meetings between them only outside of their familiar environment for a while.
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08/22/2010 02:36 PM
No, it would not be solved with a 4th female - it would make it worse! Definitely do not let them fight too. That's what is keeping them from bonding...take it slower and get in the bonding pen with them...they should not be left unsupervised to fight.
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08/24/2010 03:48 AM
I think Freddie is super-sexual or whatever you call it - like a buck. I did check today if he was actually properly neutered, and he looks just fine. Shame, It would have been easy if that was the cause. Anyway, he acts like an intact bunny. He still sprays, his poops smell, he still lifts his tail and sniffs Mollys butt and will try to hump her. I think he is overly masculine and does not go together with another male.

I have put him up for adoption. Having this warzone is upsetting. Their fights are vicious, and I have deep and painful swollen bite marks on my hands and arms (although I was wearing big winter gloves) for having done bonding sessions these past two days.

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08/24/2010 07:39 AM

First of all I want to let you know I'm sending (((peace vibes))) your way.

Now, can I ask a favour? Would you go back to having them in separate rooms for a bit and think about this again (rehoming) when you're not feeling so upset? You've gone to a lot of trouble with Freddie's health and I know you love him. Please look at this again when some days have passed. These latest bonding sessions could have been highly charged because the boys accidently got together and fought so recently. Hang in there!

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08/24/2010 07:53 AM
We are living in a small temporary apartment (that the real estaters promised us would be sold by June) with only one extra room apart from the bedroom and living room. The extra room is the bunny room where Karl has been living so far. Freddie has been living in the living room, however, he eats the wood floors, and it is really, really bad. My boyfriend is freaking out and is very angry about this, so today I have changed it, so that Karl now lives in the living room and Freddie in the bunny room. At least, Karl only chews the bean bag chairs…

But I see no way out of this. This is not like two bunnies not getting along as you see in all the other threads – they are viciously fighting and they go all in for it. I have my boyfriend yelling at me and the stress of these two never getting along and I have no space to keep them separated. Freddie will even try to attack Karl, if I sit with Karl and Freddie is on the floor – he hates the smell of him.

And my boyfriend has asked if I didn’t rather want to give up Karl, because Karl is a bit of a loner and Molly seems to be mostly attached to Freddie and he is so outgoing, but how can I let my first bunny go?? And Karl is skittish, so he will never find another good home, but Freddie is easy-going, so he has a bigger chance.

I got them drugged on Serene-Um, I have lavender aromatherapy oil lamps going and nothing seems to calm the fights down.
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08/24/2010 09:01 AM
I wouldn't blame you for wanting to find him a new home. You've been fortunate with easy bonds previously, but maybe Karl and Molly should just be a pair at this point.
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