skibunny8503  Champion, OH
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| 02/09/2010 08:14 PM |
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Well we can't do car rides...although us spinning out of control would be stressful haha! We just got a ton of snow. I wasn't very good this week, yesterday and today I didn't bond them *smacks* I will bond them tomorrow...it's just been busy. I am worried about Archie's humping with Gracie, he even tried to hump the front of her today o_O I'm just afraid if he does that again and we're not there and she freaks out....*sigh* Any ideas or just keep pressing on with the bonding session? Gracie doesn't seem to mind too much, she will run away but she hasn't attacked him....yet. |
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Petzy 
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| 02/09/2010 10:39 PM |
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If you stop the sessions you may find the buns at square one again. You don't have to do sessions every day though, just consistently. You could do a session every other day, for example. Humping is typical behavior during bonding, Archie is probably confused being switched between the two lady-buns, poor guy, haha. |
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Petzy 
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| 02/10/2010 08:44 AM |
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how about a ride on top the washing machine? make it a long one maybe. |
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"what happened?
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boogercj  Hampshire, UK
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| 02/10/2010 03:11 PM |
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Or maybe try walking around with them in a box, which works with our buns. We also tried vaccuuming around a box with them in it which worked well too 
Great vids btw, and super-cute bunnies!  |
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skibunny8503  Champion, OH
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Petzy 
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| 02/12/2010 10:00 AM |
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Sandy is such a lovable bunny! She is a beauty. They are bonding Woohoo! BONDING! Skibunny: your new year's resolution is materializing... |
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mrmac  San Diego, CA
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| 02/12/2010 10:00 AM |
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Those videos are great! They are really making progress!  Those flops are priceless! Sandy is so big now! Is she bigger than Archie? They really seem to be getting much more comfortable around eachother. Go skibunny go!  |
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skibunny8503  Champion, OH
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mrmac  San Diego, CA
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| 02/12/2010 11:18 AM |
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Now that you have worked with Archie, hopefully Gracie will be easier to add into the mix. Once you get into teh bonding it turns fun. I was kind of sad when my trio was done, but I got over it!  haha! |
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skibunny8503  Champion, OH
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| 02/12/2010 07:00 PM |
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LOL well then maybe you should get a 4th so you can start bonding again I really wanted to bond them tonight but I forgot about the Olympics (plus my brother's b-day is today) so I'll bond them tomorrow morning  |
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mrmac  San Diego, CA
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skibunny8503  Champion, OH
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mrmac  San Diego, CA
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| 02/15/2010 10:14 AM |
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Have you though about doing overnights with just Archie and Sandy? Maybe keeping them locked in the bathroom? |
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skibunny8503  Champion, OH
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| 02/16/2010 04:43 PM |
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I put them in the bathroom tub for about 2 hours and then I moved them out into the hallway, caging off all doorways. They're on 3 1/2 hours so far and are doing pretty good. Sandy's still territory about her litterbox when she's in it and Archie gets near her. My husband decided to do a little exercising and with his feet thumping on the floor it was actually a stresser Archie thumped a few times and they cuddled together. If they're ok today until 9 or so (and then I'll let Gracie run around) should I try putting Gracie in tomorrow (in the tub) or should I do another long day with the two of them together? |
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Petzy 
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| 02/16/2010 04:48 PM |
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I would not add Gracie until you have had Archie and Sandy together for an overnight session at least. You have to be sure that Archie and Sandy are really OK with each other before putting Gacie in. Gracie will rattle things up. |
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"what happened?
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skibunny8503  Champion, OH
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| 02/16/2010 06:52 PM |
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Ok I spoke too soon. They were doing great, 4 and 1/2 hours. They were sleeping next to each other for awhile so I decided to run into the kitchen to get a quick snack and I come back and they are attacking each other ugh! I know we're getting close, if Sandy could just trust Archie some more. When he runs past her she tenses up and lunges, so he must have done that or something to cause the attack. I'll def. wait to put Gracie in now. I didn't know that you had to put them overnight with just the 2, I thought maybe that might do something to Gracie and Archie's bond being apart for the night. |
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Petzy 
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| 02/17/2010 10:06 AM |
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well, the reason I recommend to leave them overnight is because you are looking at a hard bond with Gracie. Some trios do better as a 3-bun combo, but most need to really stick in pairs first to make it work. Gracie in my opinion is not the type of bun to help any other bunny bond at all.  so you need to have a good bond going between Archie and Sandy first, the overnight sessions should cement them to a point where they can handle facing Gracie's attitudes. |
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mrmac  San Diego, CA
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| 02/17/2010 10:12 AM |
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With my trio, I focused on Delilah and Dexter first. I did overnights with them for about a week maybe a little more before I added Davey in. Delilah was happy to see Davey but having Delilah already having some kind of relationship with Dexter kept the bullying of Dexter down some. |
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skibunny8503  Champion, OH
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| 02/17/2010 10:40 AM |
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Ok that sounds pretty good. My mom made a good point the other day when I was talking about bonding overnight and being afraid they'll fight and we won't hear them....my husband is on midnight shifts right now and on Saturdays he stays up as late as possible to get back in the groove so that would be a good time to do an overnight session without worrying while we're sleeping. I have a question before I forget; after I do an overnight session, what do I do with Archie? Do I put him back in the cage with Gracie or does he go with Sandy? I wish I could put his litter box with Sandy when they have bonding sessions so maybe she won't be so freaked out but since Gracie uses it, I can't. I have an extra in the basement that I can clean out, do you recommend I just start with a fresh one that they'll both use just for bonding? You guys have been so great! I think I would have given up by now if it wasn't for this board! |
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Petzy 
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| 02/17/2010 10:53 AM |
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Archie will go back with Gracie after the overnight session. This will be an important milestone in your trio binding. He will return to Gracie after some absence and with Sandy's scent! Gracie will be shocked... supervise carefully. --I'd go with a fresh box just for bonding sessions. |
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skibunny8503  Champion, OH
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| 02/18/2010 02:02 PM |
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Yesterday I did a bathtub session for about 3 hours I think. I had to stop since someone peed on the blanket and I had to clean it up so I put them back but they ended on a good note...actually there was no bad note at all they didn't fight. So being tired of sitting in the bathroom all the time we decided to put them in the living room but with towels on the ground like we did with Archie and Gracie's bonding session. It makes it a neutral area even though it really isn't. We don't have to many neutral areas here. The first minute or two was ok, they ate some hay, pellets hopped around a bit. We tried making some noise with a paper towel roll going across the x-pen to make them a little scared. I don't know what happened but I have NEVER seen Archie like this. He attacked Sandy and made the loudest growling sound and when we tried to separate them he growled at me, trying to bite my hand. He sounded like a little pig grunting about. He was pure evil at that moment. It's like we were getting somewhere and Sandy finally is trusting Archie and not attacking him and now we're back to square one and he's attacking her. I don't get it. My husband is convinced that this isn't going to work out and I'm starting to think so to. We can't do tub sessions forever.  |
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Petzy 
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| 02/18/2010 02:17 PM |
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It does not mean it isn't going to work out. Remember you are asking a lot of Archie here, to accept a new rabbit into his kingdom. I would scrap the bathtub sessions as they are not going to move you forward now. They have figured out to get along in the tub but outside of it they still need to work it out. Go back to close sessions. Take 6 grids and make a cube. You can spend a whole week doing cube sessions, long ones, stressy ones, calm ones.... If there is attacking don't give in: settle them down and continue on with the cube session. Then, you can build up the cube by making it two cubes wide and go from there. It will then be a stationary bonding cage. You get my drift? You are going to build up and around them using NIC grids from both their condos, making their together-space bigger and bigger. This is what I would do. |
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mrmac  San Diego, CA
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| 02/19/2010 06:00 AM |
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Keep being persistent with the sessions. Like Petzy said try mixing up the sessions now. The bathtub for Archie and Sandy won't work anymore, they have outsmarted it. Maybe try the cube, a table top (supervise-we don't need any bunnies falling off tables!) or counter/desk top (I did this with my trio, it was a good stressor for them). I also tried putting them in a laundry basket/box/spare cage and walked around with it shakning it a little both inside and outside. The biggest thing is not to give up, as annoying and frustrating as it is.  |
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Petzy 
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| 02/19/2010 07:55 AM |
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I feel I want to add to what I posted yesterday, skibun, as I was in a rush and had to log off.
You mentioned that you are running out of neutral areas. I was wondering where you are planning to house the rabbits for their cementing phase once they are bonded. In this context I figured you may want to think about taking down Sandy's existing condo, use the grids to make a cube for sessions such as mrmac mentioned: motion stress on top of a washing mashine or walking around with the 2 inside the cube and shaking it up a bit etc. Then you can build a new pen for Archie and Sandy in a different spot, away from Gracie's condo, in another room, your kitchen for example. You would start out small, and build it up. You would be using Sandy's condo grids to do this. You'd want to rinse the grid panels beforehand in your shower. Since Sandy still needs a condo to live in until she can move in with Archie, you would take down her condo gradually, as you increase the bonding pen for her and Archie.
I used the cube a lot for my bonding to speed it up.

At some point I replaced the rug at the bottom with a sheet of newspaper and hay and also attached a water bottle so the rabbits were able to eat, drink and potty. They won't in the beginning, though, so you keep those sessions short until they get more relaxed in the cube.

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Petzy 
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| 02/19/2010 08:06 AM |
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oh, and once you get to that point of moving in Archie with Sandy, you will still have Gracie's condo grids to work with. You would essentially repeat the process with Sandy and Gracie, taking grids from Gracie's condo and eventually setting up a smaller condo in your basement where Gracie has never been. First you would go through stress session with the two girlbuns of course. At the end of all this, you would be able to assemble 1 large condo in your office again for all three. It is however very important that all 3 rabbits take a hiatus from their old territory for at least 3 weeks; this will prevent their budding bond from going back to the "mosh pit" (a new thing MimzMUm invented for rabbits that don't get along) |
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skibunny8503  Champion, OH
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Petzy 
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| 02/20/2010 06:22 PM |
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yes, fedex them up to Alberta!  I have all new neutral spaces for them, haha! Bonding by fedex...hmm...there is another idea you came up with, cargo stress! (j/k!) I really want your trio to bond, they will be so nice together. Do not give up. Mops was like Archie, attacking Neigey for no reason at all. It will stop. Don't think about Gracie too much, one thing at a time. I like your plan for cementing, that sounds good. No need to take apart the cool condo. Keep at it, Archie needs to get it out of his system, he will get tired of attacking her. Protect Sandy though, wear gloves. |
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skibunny8503  Champion, OH
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| 02/21/2010 01:49 PM |
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My arm still hurts from the bite, geez I never gotten bitten like that before! It's all black and blue. Actually it wouldn't have mattered if I wore gloves at that moment, I think she jumped up when she did that and got the middle of my arm (through my hoodie!)...bad Sandy. *shakes head* Well found out the washing machine won't work at all. I don't know if they're just not phased by it or it's not loud and scary enough. Put them in the basket with a blanket overtop because they kept trying to jump out. I even shook the basket but they kept trying to pop their heads out and Archie almost jumped out of the basket too! So there went that session...I'm just not in a good enough mood this week to have patience for them. lol! I'll try another session tonight. But the washing machine is a no no for us since no matter how careful we were to try to keep them in they tried to jump out o_O
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jerseygirl  Australia Posts: 11348


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| 02/21/2010 06:01 PM |
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I found covering the pen sides with a sheet helped with my 2. Sorry, I don't have much to offer, just some bonding (((vibes))). |
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Petzy 
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| 02/22/2010 10:41 AM |
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Posted By skibunny8503 on 02/21/2010 01:49 PM
the washing machine is a no no for us since no matter how careful we were to try to keep them in they tried to jump out o_O
that's why I used the cube. It has a lid. Don't let the bunnies dictate what goes and what doesn't. if you want to use the washing machine, you will. If Archie wants to attack Sandy, you will stop him by pushing his head down. You are in charge. These rabbits are not allowed to drive you crazy.

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